Everyone always likes to say ignore the pain, forget it, but I don't agree. Ironic, isn't it. Cos I think that we really should embrace the pain, live it fully, know the full impact of it, feel it, not love it, but experience it. I really think that we should live life fully, and pain really is just an unavoidable part of life. I also think that having known the power of pain and sadness and grief, we'll learn to love the joy and the little bits of happiness in life more. So why avoid pain? Embrace it, let it empower you, take over you, and when you finally learn to let go of it, you'll eventually treasure those memories of the things that used to cause you so much pain. There's no point in avoiding any aspect of life, you just have to accept everything the way it is. Cos' life is beautiful just the way it is. ♥
